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Musings of Peter Shurman on a range of timely subjects or whatever appeals on any given day!
Friday, 26 February 2016
Tuesday, 19 January 2016
I've Never Met Glenn Frey...Why am I So Sad?
Glenn Frey, if you didn't know, was (with Don Henley) a founding member of The Eagles. He died on January 18, 2016 and it hit those who knew of him and were Eagles fans hard because the news was unexpected and came suddenly. He was only 67 but had been ailing, it seems, and that was kept under wraps. Besides, it appears his friends and family expected him to recover.
When I read a tweet in the late afternoon that said he'd passed, I thought it might be another hoax - but I checked around and the news was everywhere. A wave of emotion washed over me and I shed tears. That has never happened before. Why now? I didn't know Glenn and, while I'd always wanted to attend an Eagles concert and expected to, I haven't...and now I never will.
Glenn Frey left us within a short period of early 2016 that's been marked by the loss of a number of high profile people in the arts. David Bowie, another musician, but better known as a person who lived life his own unique way and taught us all that this was a good thing, died of cancer at 69. Rene Angelil, the man who discovered Celine Dion, bet everything on her, married her, and with her, created an entertainment phenomenon has also gone. So too the well known British actor of distinctive voice, Alan Rickman.
In each case, a body of work lives on. In each instance, I have no personal connection. But, I've paid attention...seen, heard, and known of these people for much or most of my adult life. With Glenn Frey, there was a lifetime relationship through his music. I posted on Facebook (and I have never done this) that his music had been a major part of the soundtrack of my life. Who, in this generation, cannot understand that? I once visited a place called Winslow Arizona...the first thing I did as I strolled through the centre of town was to say to people with me "I was standing on a corner, in Winslow Arizona...what a fine sight to see! There's a girl, my Lord, in a flatbed Ford, slowed down to take a look at me". Right out of The Eagles song book! Even now, I am learning to play guitar (guitar for seniors??) and one of the pieces I practice and play is "Peaceful Easy Feeling".
So, losing Glenn Frey is losing a piece of my youth. And losing that is a reminder that the clock only runs one way. One friend of many years responded to my Facebook post by saying "I'm starting to get up there in years. I keep looking at the clock every time I see another of these death notices." Another began ominously too but ended with an upbeat thought."Ask not for whom the bell tolls. It tolls for thee. John Donne had it right. So, we may as well get on with the business of living."
I asked someone I know if it was a silly thing to feel emotional about losing one of our contemporaries, even one so influential in our lives through his artistic ability. He said no, that as time wears on, he finds himself occasionally tearing up over a Hallmark card because that's what people do!
I hope this is not coming across as corny or maudlin...I do not mean it to be. This is simply the downside of generational change and the routine side of adjusting to the fact that none of us actually is immortal, regardless of the fact we felt we were not so very long ago.
I recently wrote a book, "Millennials: Boom'er Bust". It's about turning things over to a new group of people who, as surely as we once did, now outnumber their parents in the work force and in the population too. I did the research and so I know the numbers and I have faced the naked reality. But, as it turns out, that's not enough. You have to actually lose some of the icons of your time and watch beacons along your own road fade away before you truly realize that the train of life never stops and that you may just be staring at the caboose!
Oh Peter, some readers must be saying...were you going to take the gas pipe now or, at least, have a good dinner first? Fear not. I am planning to have many more good dinners and never go willingly. Still much too much to do! But that doesn't stop me from tipping my imaginary hat to contemporaries who have preceded me to the exit and those who yet will. The forces that shape us are both harsh and subtle. Harsh is the demanding professor or the strict parent or the business that failed, no matter how devoted and hard-working we may have been. Subtle are the wonderful places we've visited, friends we've made, movies and plays and (of course) music that have all contributed to our character...who we are and how we think.
To Glenn Frey, thank you...I do have that Peaceful, Easy Feeling and I try always to Take It Easy. I am well aware that Love Will Keep Us Alive. Your work, to which we've all been exposed for about 45 years, will ensure it and ensure that you live on with us.
Peter
Friday, 24 April 2015
Greenbelt Review Ignores Housing Supply/Demand Imbalance
An outstanding opportunity is being missed
– and it’s right under Ontarians’ noses. It’s the only chance we have, for the
next decade, to correct a tragic wrong being perpetrated upon thousands of our fellow
citizens seeking better quality of life for their families. And it’s called the
Greenbelt Plan Review.
About ten years ago, the government passed
a series of laws governing land use, mostly in the GTA and Southern Ontario.
The four Acts protect conservation, agricultural, recreational and
eco-sensitive territories. A laudable goal when viewed in isolation, but add in
the human component and you get a different result.
By 2025, 8-million people will call the GTA
home and 13-million will live in the Greater Golden Horseshoe by 2040. As a
result of the Greenbelt Plan and similar legislation they will continue to be forced
into sandwich-like vertical cubes built either on Toronto’s former parking
lots or inside “intensification-designated” residential lands falling under
largely immutable Official Plans of the area’s many cities and towns. A
burgeoning population has literally nowhere to go.
The result is insatiable demand, with
little supply. Gone are the days of a family’s ‘backyard dream’…these days youngsters
take their bicycles to the elevator, down 25 floors and over to the nearest
city park to ride. How fair does that sound? It may be wonderful if you’re a
Greenbelt deer or turtle, but for human beings, not so much.
Yet the current “traveling road show
Greenbelt review” under former Toronto Mayor David Crombie appears to be little
more than a sham. It’s an opportunity
for ultra-conservationists to rail against urban sprawl, with residential developers
once again cast in the role of scapegoats. It also looks as if the panel’s conclusions
are foregone with little to no change coming as a relief for those who would
own residential property within 100 kilometers of downtown Toronto. Is this
panel really consulting? Is it even listening?
U-Live, an acronym for “urban living in
viable environments” (www.u-live.ca) is a
non-profit movement that seeks to uphold the protections the Greenbelt Plan
affords to conservation, recreation and agricultural areas, while addressing
the serious housing supply and demand imbalance. U-Live supports expanding the
Greenbelt protections to include all river valleys within 50 kilometers of the
CN Tower and expand all four protective Acts outward by 50 kilometers, where
feasible. At the same time, U-Live is urging the provincial government to afford
municipalities more latitude to vary what may be constructed within designated
settlement lands and to permit limited (but required) incursions into nearer
Greenbelt territory in reviewing their individual Official Plans.
Ontario has an aging population and a
growing newcomer base. We need senior accommodations; townhomes; single family
semi-detached and detached homes, and we need all of these housing
configurations to be affordable. If we fail to acknowledge this by acting now,
the door slams for ten more years until the next review. If we don’t address
this now, the already huge daily influx to the GTA from far-flung residential
areas as distant as Cobourg, Gravenhurst, and St. Catharines will continue to
grow, lessening family time and increasing the GHG content of our air.
Rarely a day goes by when we don’t read
about the remarkable percentage increases in both GTA and Vancouver property values,
to the exclusion of almost every other part of the country. Vancouver is easy
to explain…no more land! You can’t build homes on the Pacific Ocean or in the
Rockies, both being natural barriers. But the barriers in Ontario are
arbitrary, imposed solely by policy and they affect us all.
These arbitrary policies need change. So whether
you are a resident of the City of Toronto proper dealing with increasingly
unmanageable intensification, a family looking for a reasonably priced home
within reasonable distance to the GTA, a farmer who seeks to sell or to protect
agricultural land, outline your concerns in a submission to the Greenbelt
Review and send it to landuseplanningreview@ontario.ca.
Peter
Wednesday, 25 February 2015
Should Kathleen Wynne Tell Our Kids About Sex?
The answer to the question “should Kathleen
Wynne tell our kids about sex” is, actually, that she shouldn’t but I am happy
that her government is finally getting on with the revision of this important
course of study. Sex is one of the driving forces of nature that exists in us all.
In some homes, having ‘that conversation’ is not only routine…it is part of
ongoing education. The kids in those homes are lucky…but they are few and far
between.
There are those who say that, with sex,
one-size-fits-all (no pun intended) is an inappropriate approach to dealing
with our sexuality and that it’s for parents, not teachers, to confront. But
most of us come from homes, regardless of background, where parents really
didn’t…and still don’t. I have two adult children. My wife and I were both open
people. But, despite the fact we always responded to questions, the more
nuanced aspects of sexuality still got away from us. And that was pre-Internet!
Today, nothing escapes kids who want information. “Porn” is the single most
searched term on all of Google…does anyone really think that’s only about
deprived adult males?
So, given the Internet provides very
graphic and readily available material on every normal aspect and all aberrations of
sexuality, what is a parent to do? And what is a school system to do? Both are
faced with an unending stream of questions kids won’t actually ask and answers
most of us didn’t even know were expected or which we’re ill-equipped to
provide.
The new course of school study will deal
with nomenclature; same-sex relationships; masturbation; oral sex…and it works
its way into a lot of material that scares many adults as much as it might
overwhelm youngsters, if learned in the wrong environments or in the wrong way.
Those charged with imparting the detail in school settings will not have the
loving relationship of parent-and-child to lean on, but they will have a
professional ability to speak and listen along with an intuitive sense about
how to deal with youthful responses.
When I was young, the boys’ gym teacher
taught us what passed for sex education. He was as embarrassed standing up at
the front of the room drawing a bad chalk picture of a penis on the blackboard
as my father was trying to have the ‘birds-and-bees’ conversation with me! My
buddies and I laughed at both efforts, well-intentioned as they were. And I
tell this story by way of pointing out that our “sixties” parents behaved in precisely
the same way as millennial parents are now. “Don’t you teach my kid about
that…it’s my job”. That was the standard line…and I am pretty sure I heard
several parents use those very words on last evening’s TV news. By the way,
parents may elect to opt their kids out…mine couldn’t.
I believe that what most parents worry about
most is bad relationships and abnormal sexual habit patterns developing that
are NOT part of an education they can offer their kids. ‘Sexting’…for example, sending
digital photos out over the Internet has really caused pain, even death. A
young girl is talked into taking a naked “selfie” and sending it to a boyfriend
sincerely believing he’s the only person who’ll ever see it…when the boy fires
it off to the world where it resides in cyberspace forever, the girl is
mortified…and we’ve all read the horror stories of what can ensue…has ensued.
Honestly, what parent can teach kids about that?? It didn’t exist when they
were young! But the schools are addressing it.
Some parents (and this can be culturally
based) don’t want teachers discussing homosexuality. Yet, most kids attend
classes where a fellow student has two moms or two dads. This is a first
generation phenomenon. How do parents reasonably address this legally supported
orientation? They can’t.
Will our schools (supported by our
government) do a perfect job of properly addressing what our kids need to know?
I doubt it. They don’t even teach decent math anymore. But, as with everything,
we need a starting point. I do not often applaud government…certainly not this
government, one that has its hands full with all manner of difficulty. But I do
applaud it for trying to bring an aspect of education into line with the times.
If parents and morally inhibited leaders
want to preach otherwise, it’s a free society. Go and demonstrate or call your
MPP. Meanwhile, let’s get on with something that’s long overdue.
Peter
Thursday, 19 February 2015
Scarborough-by-the-Sea Sounds Good Right Now!
Is it just because I’ve become ‘an older version of me’
that I believe the weather in this part of Canada has been changing…and not for
the better? No one of sound mind will debate climate change anymore. But I’m not sure
how many still want to discuss global warming. I grew up sixty years ago in a
Montreal I remember as a definitive study in Canadian winter. A well known Quebec "anthem" is Gilles Vigneault's "Mon pays, ce nest pas un pays, c'est l'hiver" in which the title line translates as "my country is not a country...it's winter". My (then) young boy’s
body ran and played amid walls of snow; I built snow forts, tobogganed, expected about
six months of winter, and really had no issue with any of it. There were blizzards and
there were cold days. But that was then and this is now…and that's before even considering
that Montreal is at least 200 kilometers north of the latitude of Southern
Ontario. We have been experiencing sustained, biting cold and literally tons of fresh snow. Routine temperatures are in the negative range and as low as -20c. In my childhood, we hadn’t yet “discovered”
the Celsius scale and -20c. is close to zero when measured in Fahrenheit! Are
you kidding me? Yes, I've experienced that previously but not for a very long time, never sustained, and not in Southern Ontario.
So, I give up. I yield. Recently, I
discovered that a round trip to Florida doesn’t have to originate up north.
Someone told me that I could actually book a round trip for the same price, on
the same planes but they originate in Fort Lauderdale or West Palm Beach and
then return there! Who knew? That means I could work from the sunny
south, use all the electronic connectivity I have here at home quite seamlessly,
and, if a client needed to see me, I could avail myself of one of those south-north-south flights I found out about! Then, I could stay up here and freeze for only two days
and spend the other 28 days of the month wearing shorts. Beats the other way
around, don’t you think? Consider this my pledge to make that change next
winter…no, I’m not kidding!
Life today makes so many things possible.
Who knew that the time-wasting cat-fights we all have on Twitter and Facebook
could be conducted from Boston’s-By-the-Beach in Delray? And nobody up here
would be the wiser! In a recent blog post, I noted that the Americans are a
canny lot because they have an amazing ability to see the future. For example,
when the Brits were fighting the rebel Yanks a few hundred years ago and
finally decided to settle things, the continent was divided. Canada got
everything north of the 49th parallel. As we say in mixed
company…B.F.D. 90% of Canucks live within 100 kilometers of the US border for a
reason! If those dumb ass Brit negotiators had said “sorry, we want a vertical
division”, we could have owned everything from the eastern Arctic to the Florida
Keys. The Americans could have had everything from Alaska south to Mexico. Who
needs Vancouver or Seattle or California anyway? The midpoint could have been,
say, Death Valley! More succinctly, a friend tweeted recently that we
should re-open talks with the Turks & Caicos – those islands bluster every
couple of years seeking to become the next Canadian province. Great idea. Then we
could spend our winter vacations in the sun and not cross a border or pay a
premium for the local currency!
Consider this blog post my personal attempt to make light of a bitter cold day in the dead of winter, knowing, as
I write this, that we are a scant eight weeks away from rebirth and renewal in what
is undoubtedly one of the most beautiful displays of new life in the
world…Canadian spring. The squirrels come out and dig up my lawn; they denude
my oak tree for the acorns; the raccoons defecate over my entire property (but fear not…for I have fox urine a-plenty to spread around)…racoons smell the fox-pee and then, imagining it is meant to inspire dread, makes them look at me through their facial masks
quizzically. Grubs wreck my lawn. Leaves on the trees degrade the TV signals.
Maple tags clog the pool pump. I should probably stop right there. I still love spring and summer.
Bottom line…I’ve always viewed Florida as a
stop gap. I know people there. I have family there. They have restaurants serving good food (if you look for them) and great shopping. There are lots of highways because they’re cheap to
build…construction companies don’t have to consider anything called a “frost
line”. Then again, I myself have, more than once, labeled Florida as
“Scarborough with Palm Trees”. I’ve weighed the pros and cons. Scarborough
isn’t so bad and I really like palm trees. You can read my blog posts next year but
they’ll be generated with an underlying happier mood, written (as they will be) from
Boca Raton.
Peter
Monday, 2 February 2015
Beer, Vaccinations, Kathleen Wynne and Ontario
Two divergent and unrelated news events got me going today. Beer sales in corner stores and vaccinating our kids. How different does it get? Well, I am known
as a conservative thinker and a former Member of Provincial Parliament elected under the Progressive Conservative banner. Truth be told, I am more libertarian than
I am conservative. So, in a perfect world, I like the concept
of “live and let live”. But, it’s not a perfect world. So, conservatism will suffice…and my interpretation of it is that laws are a set of rules that
protect us from each other…period. People often ask me about laws enacted to
protect us from ourselves…what we can eat or drink or whether we should be allowed to expose
ourselves to the ultraviolet light of a tanning bed. My reaction is unequivocal...leave
me alone, I’m an adult!
This began to gnaw at me when media reports emerged saying that the Premier
of Ontario had announced that we'd see no beer sold in
corner stores. She did say the Beer Store monopoly would be changing this
Spring but she was absolute in her “no convenience stores” position. Well, Premier
Wynne, just who do you think you are? This province elected a majority Liberal
government of which you are leader, therefore Premier. We did not crown you Queen nor pump white smoke up a chimney to anoint you the first female Pope. So, you govern...but you don't rule.
Basically,
every jurisdiction in North America has beer available in privately owned chain
stores. These are often supermarkets but they could, alternatively or in
addition, be corner convenience stores. This acknowledges several things…consumer demand,
lengthier hours of availability, non-monopolistic competition in price and product, and
(importantly) the fact that we are adult decision-makers, fully capable of
electing to buy and consume beer when and where we like…or not. No one likes a dictatorial government, notably where the rights being
curtailed involve government trying to protect us from ourselves. Please stop this silly nonsense, Premier Wynne, and just give Ontarians what every other state and province
has. Quit trying to be 13,000,000 peoples’ mom!!
Perhaps you should focus on another
news story of the day and begin doing your job properly...protecting us from each
other. As an MPP, I recall, all too often, misguided idiots
passing for parents presenting themselves at my office to have documents
notarized which would prevent their children from receiving any
vaccinations. They’d say they didn’t believe in injecting “monkey pus” into
their kids’ bloodstreams. I wanted to jump across my desk and slap them…but,
alas, I had to smile and sign.
We are
seeing a resurgence of measles in various places around North America, now including Ontario. This
tells us several things. a) These controlled diseases are not anymore controlled now than they ever were, absent preventive vaccination; b) There are
many people like those parents still out there; c) Communicable diseases can spread rapidly. So, here are some laws we actually need...and, Premier Wynne, it's your job to pass them!
Parents who deny their children a vaccine proven to prevent a disease are
criminals and do not deserve to be parents. Premier Wynne, enact a law forcing them to stand aside and shut up as their children are properly vaccinated against all diseases for which we
have proven preventives. That would be good legislation for Ontario. Instead, you appear to prefer screwing around with where we can buy beer and when. Hey...leave that to us…we
are as adult as you are and, it would seem, many of us are a good deal brighter.
You have clear priorities...fix your flagging economy. Create a solid economic
development plan. Develop a parallel jobs plan. Get out of peoples’ lives and out of
our faces except when it comes to protecting us from each other…or, in this case, protecting
the most precious and vulnerable among us, young children, from the stupidity and
irresponsibility of parents who refuse to vaccinate.
Peter
Peter
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